Are we Going Steady?
For the last few months, I have been baffled by something that will probably seem very trivial, but I’m going to tell you anyway.
We talk so much about relationships on this site, that I have been forced to ask the simple question: how do we know if we are in one? Now, it may not seem that big of a deal to you, but let us consider the possibilities:
Let’s just say that Chrisette inspired me.
I have to admit it, I have been wasting my time…and maybe he would say the same thing.
Have you ever met someone that you’d never–not in a million years–think that you would click–let alone that they would be someone that you’d end up in this weird back and forth relationship? (And I use the term relationship loosely…)
Woman Seeking Man, but not any ol’ man will do. Unless you fit the following criteria please do not respond…
You must be…
Intelligent, Honest, Trustworthy, Passionate, Compassionate, Ambitious, Determined, Loving, Sharing , Humorous, Creative, Stylish, Respectful (of self and others), Faithful…Oh…and you must love Football!
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What’s the most important thing you need from (in) a potential mate?
No I’m not referring to the movie starring Keenan Ivory Wayans…
I’m talking about these punk azz #$%&*@! that are creeping around with men but claim not to be gay. They call it being on the DL, Down Low, or what have you…I call it a low down dirty shame!
everyone reading this has been through the following scenario(or have you?): 
you like him/her…you wonder if he/she likes you…you assume that he/she should know…you grow disinterested because he/she never showed signs of “like” (and you are absolutely positive that you did everything necessary)…you eventually find out that the feeling was mutual.
confusion sets in…
or has this only happened to a couple of people and is the exception, not the rule? Well, allow us to investigate, beginning with a classic “case” of like gone wrong…
you know the scenario, but if not, then try to follow along–at l
east for your friend’s sake.
so, you have met him/her and you just know…with every fiber of your being you just know that this person is going to be important to you. so you begin the tedious work of pursuing him/her in hopes of making this person your next significant other.
wait…tedious?
tedious.
Ladies, is a Pimp Killer something you aspire to be?
I was listening to “Pimp In Me” by J Holiday. As he sang…
Cause you got it all girl…body of a call girl…
Wait? Did I hear him correctly? But then again, he is a Pimp, so of course he would automatically refer to me as a ho. He did go on to say mind of a teacher, so I get it…he can appreciate a woman holistically…her mind and body…but wait? Is that having it all? What about my soul? Are we not accounting for it?
The following is a passage from www.havetherelationshipyouwant.com’s e-newsletter entitled, “If He’s Ignoring You…Try This Power Speech:
…But let me lay out two ways to say such a thing
- one with need and desperation behind it, and one
with Power behind it.
You could say “I feel almost crazy desperate
sometimes when I don’t hear from you…” and MEAN
“…so could you please, please call me, I can’t
stand to be without you, I need you to call me,
you are so mean to not call me…”
I want…You.
I cannot go back, all I can do is go forward
There are so many things I want to erase, so many words I need to say
Where do I begin?
How do I begin?
I have had a glimpse of life with out you, and it is a reality that I do not want
What exactly does this mean, I do not know
I do know, that you are important to me, and I want you in my life
Sometimes you get use to someone, something
You get in a routine, and you just assume that things will always remain
I guess that was my mistake
Things are different. Things have changed. Things might not ever be the same.
I hope not…
I hope for a future with you
I hope to share my dreams and aspirations with you
I hope that you can look pass my faults and see my needs
See that I need you
Sometimes I get a bit beside myself
I lose control of my senses and let my emotions take control
For that, I apologize…
It is unfair for me to expect you to think or feel the way that I do
Is it wrong of me to ask you to let me in?
Let me in on what you are feeling…
Allow me to share those feelings, be it good or bad
I am up for the challenge
I know the road ahead will not always be easy
What is easy is not always what is best
Some things have changed, but one thing still remains
I feel the same way for you today, as I did yesterday
My first thought when I wake up is still you
My last thought before I go to bed is still you
Sometimes I hold back, and not show exactly how I feel
I have worked so long to protect my feelings
The walls we build around us are so much easier to put up than they are to tear down
Sometimes it is hard for me to show you exactly how I feel
Sometimes I have a hard time articulating my thoughts
It seems the more I say, the more cloudy the sky becomes
I can see the sun rising on the horizon, and I know that great things are to come
I have allowed myself to breathe, and now I have clarity
It is clear what I want…
I want your arms to hold me.
I want your lips to kiss me.
I want your smile to welcome me.
I want your voice to whisper to me.
I want…
You.
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