Why Love Hurts So Much
One of life’s ironies is that your strength could be your weakness. Perhaps a source of happiness could also be a source of anguish. That is the nature of life. To expect that this could never be the case would be to reside happily in fool’s paradise. Love – in all its forms – emphasises this. It is the root of all relationships that we have with strangers or our loved ones.
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So here’s our final question… and yes guys, this one is for you too… it’s all love here, you’re all men anyway… right?
I like the way it hurts…
Just gonna stand there and watch my burn?
You ask… Yet you’re the one that lit the match…
As a young child, my now 20 something year old cousin would inflict pain upon himself. One day he begins to repeatedly hit himself in the head, and I commanded him to stop, asking “Why are you doing that to yourself?” His response, “I like pain.”
Until this day, his words still resonate with me… “I like pain.”
You are living your life…
Then it seems as if out from nowhere…he appears.
Sometimes the old cliché is true, “out of sight, out of mind.” Yet, with just one glimpse of the past, your thoughts are now consumed by him. He appears in your dreams…while sleeping and awake. You were over him, or so you thought; and now you have feelings of confusion surfacing within. You begin to ask yourself, “What does this mean? Do I still have feelings for him? Why is he reaching out to me? What does he want?”
So I have had it all wrong…
First comes sex, then comes baby carriage… and if I’m really really really lucky, and play my cards right…then maybe, just maybe I will get the love and marriage?
Seriously?
I once dated a guy who told me that if he was dating a girl and she became pregnant, he would then just go ahead and marry her (with the assumption that he is the father… Maury, I might have a show for you!)… irregardless of the relationship the two shared, he would work to build a relationship on the basis of parenthood.
Wobbly Wobbly…
How important is sex to a relationship?
While on twitter, I jokingly asked, “Do I really want to wobbly wobbly drop drop it like it’s hot?” I was in the moment referring to dancing, however, I received the following response from a male follower @WisdomIsMisery:
“There’s a word for women who don’t “wobbly wobbly drop drop it like it’s hot” – SINGLE” ~ http://www.wisdomismisery.com/
Being alone does not equate to loneliness…
This has become my creed if you will.
I feel it is important to spend some time getting to know me better…my needs, my wants, what makes me happy…what I bring to the table.
I feel that if I cannot spend time me, it will be hypocritical to expect someone else to want to be in my company.
How to Go From Girlfriend to Wife
So you have been wearing that girlfriend crown around for a while now and wonder if you will ever get to replace it with a ring. You want the whole enchilada, commitment, marriage, the works, but you seem to be stuck at girlfriend.
That Moment…
I started not to write this… I feel like a broken record, with this unrequited love thing and all…
Here we stand in a crowded room… we arrived separately, not knowing that the other would be here. Our eyes meet from across the room… I quickly look away. I feel uncomfortable in your presence, sensing my awkwardness you try to make me feel at ease. You catch my attention and ask me to come to you, “Closer… closer… no closer.” Here we stand, face- to- face, lips barely missing each other. My emotions overtake me as I look into your eyes. I see you looking back at me as if you’re looking into me…into my soul. I retreat, giving into the moment…
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