As mentioned during our birthday celebration, we are looking to bring you more new and exciting things in year two!  We are making some changes as we work to grow and expand all things boissuq, and amongst those changes is the addition of new writers to the team…  We have a very creative and talented young lady that is up for the challenge, and I would like you to all give her a warm welcome!  I am excited… can’t wait to read what she has to share!  Read more...

you know the scenario, but if not, then try to follow along–at least for your friend’s sake.

so, you have met him/her and you just know…with every fiber of your being you just know that this person is going to be important to you. so you begin the tedious work of pursuing him/her in hopes of making this person your next significant other.

wait…tedious?

tedious.  Read more...

You know what it is, you make something out of nothing – Juvenile

Of course, well all are chasing paper…We all have to make a living, we all want to have nice things…

But I’m not talking about the type of paper that can be deposited at Bank of America.

Ladies, it’s time that we sit back and reflect…time to own up to why we sometimes end up in these relationships that lead us to a dead in to nowhere.  Read more...

Labor Day is typically regarded as a day of rest…many take off from work, heading out to cookouts and other social events…

But today, I want to focus on work…

Merriam-Webster’s defines work as:

1 : activity in which one exerts strength or faculties to do or perform something: a : sustained physical or mental effort to overcome obstacles and achieve an objective or result

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*originally posted on Jan 4, 2010*

In the Beginning…

I did not know what to write.  Would this article be a confession of the love I had given to the wrong black men? Or would it be “Calling It Out” to all the sistahs who want to love a black man?  Hmmmm…I finally came to a compromise.  I will call it out, and “it” being “me.”  Read more...

Don’t screw it.

Take me in your arms, look me in the eyes, and tell me how sexy my mind is…work to build that connection with me that allows us to become as one…sensuality is a mentality…allow our minds to intertwine with a heightened sense of passion…when you make love to my mind you got me…all of me.  Tell me how good I am to you, tell me how much you love the way I move…make love to my mind…gently whisper sweet nothings in my ear, as we share each others space, chemistry is in place, as we create the formula…make love to mind…connect with my inner essence…  Read more...

when we were younger, things were so different.  the people that we would accept into our lives then are very different than the people we would give access to now–at least i would hope so.  for the bois, it means going beyond the gyrl with the short skirt and the tiiiiiiiiight top and looking for someone real and authentic (with a tight top-ha!).  on the other hand, gyrls who once settled for ballers, thugs, and the cute guy you passed in the hallway in 6th period, have  replaced them with a list of attributes that we have  created based on our experiences with the bois we have been with and the men that we never should have.  Read more...

by Life’s Profylactic

The innocence of the love we share
The sweet innocence of each sensual kiss
The innocent taste of me,
Residing upon your lips
The innocence of the hugs we share
As your body presses firmly against mine
In a dare to accentuate the emotions in you to the emotions in me
The innocence of us cuddling
Me stroking your soft skin
Wrappin you like blankets in front of a fireplace on a cold winters morning
In our own secluded cabin of our love’s intimate innocence
Heating your blood with love,
Tender
Love, like that sensual kiss
Let me grab you HARD,  Read more...

Touch.

Embrace.

Kiss.

You.

To be touched.

To be embraced.

To be kissed.

To be with you.

To feel your touch.

To feel your embrace.

To feel your kiss.

To feel you.

I want your touch.

I want your embrace.

I want your kiss.

I want to be with you.

I asked four male friends…associates…what have you the following question, prefacing it with, “I do not have needs it’s more so wants” is not an option…

What is the one (the most important) thing you need in a woman?

“For her to be secure in herself”

“A willingness to have an open mind.”

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