when we were younger, things were so different.  the people that we would accept into our lives then are very different than the people we would give access to now–at least i would hope so.  for the bois, it means going beyond the gyrl with the short skirt and the tiiiiiiiiight top and looking for someone real and authentic (with a tight top-ha!).  on the other hand, gyrls who once settled for ballers, thugs, and the cute guy you passed in the hallway in 6th period, have  replaced them with a list of attributes that we have  created based on our experiences with the bois we have been with and the men that we never should have.  Read more...