I could probably write a thesis paper on the fallacy of reasoning within this book, but I am just going to touch upon the points that stood out to me.
The main point being…
The assumption that all men are alike…
As women, we are are constantly being told that we should not treat the next man like he was the last man…yet here is a man telling us that he can tell us to think like all men…because all men need and want the same things from us.
boissuq replay | Can we be friends?
I asked the following question of three male “associates”…
Is it possible for men and women to genuinely be friends?
I found the responses very interesting…
“Yes and no. I believe they can if they establish boundaries. If they know they’re not each others type…but if one has qualities the other likes, feelings may come into question.”
“In general no, but in specific cases yes.”
The Top 10 reasons boissuq…as told by Keli C. and ms.goodigoodi
10…
Bois suq when they can text you all night, but can ever seem to answer a phone call.
9…
Bois suq when they have no ambition or determination-especially when it’s obvious. *big sigh*
8…
Bois suq when they don’t have their lives together but want you to share in their chaos…seriously?
dedicated to: ajb…thanks for the inspiration. 
how many times have you done it? don’t get nasty…
how many time have you done it? you know, you meet him/her…you like him/her, and the next thing you know, you start “expecting” things. the truth is that you starting, “testing” things.
Pause: Let me just say that this is not about every sistah, or about every relationship. However, Everything said here has happened, even if it did not happen to you, and if it has happened to you (or you made it happen), my prayer is that you have evolved from it.
I have a question, how are we defining right back?
A guy I was involved with in my former life, would abruptly end phone calls with, “Let me call you right back.” In my naivete, I would sit around waiting for him to call me right back. There were times when I fell asleep waiting for him to call me back…I would go to bed about 10pm, wake up thinking (more so hoping) it was 10:30, only to realize it was 4am and I am still waiting on that call…I soon came to learn that with him, “right back” meant within the next 24 to 48 hours.
‘Bout a shake of a snake, And the smile went along wit dat
Can’t truss it ~ Public Enemy
Although I usually steer clear, yesterday evening while tweeting, I participated in the trending topic “never trust”…
I came up with some very clever tweets (all based on actual experiences) such as…
#nevertrust a guy that wants you to go to his family bbq, and you just gave him your number the night before.
Seventh grade… a friend that I made in the fifth grade developed a crush on me. He took a lot of time and courage to pen a letter acknowledging how his feelings for me at that time.
Truth or Consequences
Up late night with my thoughts as I begin to reflect upon a conversation I had with a close girlfriend earlier today. We were discussing a boi of course…
My friend stated that men seem to take issue with a strong woman that knows exactly what she wants.
I countered with, “I think it’s more so about men having a hard time knowing (or admitting) to exactly what they want.”
I Wonder What He (Or She) Meant by That
EVER SAID THIS IN YOUR MIND? Of course you have. Everyone has. An important study on negotiation by Harvard University found that whilst ninety percent of people have positive intent in their dealing with us, eighty percent of the time–if we ask the above question as a filter–we attribute their intent negatively.
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