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 So here’s our final question… and yes guys, this one is for you too… it’s all love here, you’re all men anyway… right? 

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It was one year ago today that we launched boissuq.com, and we would like to invite each of you to join us in celebrating this occasion!

In honor of our one year anniversary, we will be giving away $100 to one lucky boissuq.com reader!

This is how the contest will work:  Read more...

The following is a passage from www.havetherelationshipyouwant.com’s e-newsletter entitled, “If He’s Ignoring You…Try This Power Speech:

…But let me lay out two ways to say such a thing
- one with need and desperation behind it, and one
with Power behind it.

You could say “I feel almost crazy desperate
sometimes when I don’t hear from you…” and MEAN
“…so could you please, please call me, I can’t
stand to be without you, I need you to call me,
you are so mean to not call me…”  Read more...

How will I know if he really loves me…

~ Whitney Houston

I do not know about you, but I am not particularly fond of playing the guessing game.  There is nothing worse than having strong feelings for someone, and not knowing if he feels the same.  Yes, I could always ask, but then he  may feel backed into a corner, and obligated to give the answer he feels I need to hear…not necessarily the truth.  Not to mention, I feel that actions speak louder than words, and for me it’s usually about the little things.  Read more...

I am one to say that I do not date…

I meet a guy, we become friends, and then maybe we can see what develops from there…

Well, this approach has not worked too well for me these past couple of years.

I am not the type of chick to seek out a man…I just go about my day to day life…if I meet someone new, great, but I am not going to be the one to pursue anything beyond friendship.  Read more...

I often fantasize about what we could have been…

The reality is, I will never know what we could be because you denied me access to you.   “I don’t want to be the one to hurt you”…It seems to me a guilt free excuse…you tell me you do not want to be the one to hurt me, yet your decision to deny me the opportunity to connect with you hurts…  Read more...

So said my professor during our last class meeting.  He was speaking with regards to education…no perfect students, no perfect teacher… yet… this statement holds true in every aspect of life…

Especially in our relationships.  No perfect woman… no perfect man.  We all have room for growth, and we all make mistakes; however, mistakes should not be used as excuses…  Read more...

‘Bout a shake of a snake, And the smile went along wit dat
Can’t truss it ~ Public Enemy

Although I usually steer clear, yesterday evening while tweeting, I participated in the trending topic “never trust”…

I came up with some very clever tweets (all based on actual experiences) such as…

#nevertrust a guy that wants you to go to his family bbq, and you just gave him your number the night before.  Read more...

Ms.goodigoodi and I will be stopping by The Unfiltered Show, today February 22nd at 8pm EST.   So make sure to visit http://chataboutit.com/about/unfiltered/ to tune in to see what we have to say this week, you can also call in with your questions or comments!  You don’t want to miss it!

Click the link below to listen to our previous appearance on 2/8/2010:

Unfiltered – Podcast – Episode 62

No I am not talking about the New Orleans Saints…

Yet I am referring to Saint Valentine’s Day, asking Who dat?  Who dat?  Who dat gon’ be my valentine?

Will you be mine?

The question seems simple, yet it’s quite complicated.  Read more...