For the last few months, I have been baffled by something that will probably seem very trivial, but I’m going to tell you anyway.
We talk so much about relationships on this site, that I have been forced to ask the simple question: how do we know if we are in one? Now, it may not seem that big of a deal to you, but let us consider the possibilities:
After about “x” months, or even weeks of dating, many women experience an interesting phenomenon when it comes to their mate. Now that they have removed the rose-colored glasses that keep them through the honeymoon phases of this budding relationship, it seems that there is a little problem.
He has nothing going for him…okay, let’s be fair, he has nothing that you value going for him.
No job.
No ambition.
Before entering into this agreement, please read the fine print… 
‘I’m not trying to put a ring on it.”
So what exactly is this disclaimer about?
boi: I’m not trying to put a ring on it…A new way to say a man doesn’t want to be committed but he wants all the pleasures of a relationship
Me: ah-ha!
boi: But you knew that… right?
Relationship dating for the long haul requires a level of maturity where one is ready to accept responsibility. Many couples that are very suited to each other often back out of a relationship because of simple issues that could have been addressed at a moment when they were both prepared to face it.
So last week I took to facebook and posted the following status…
Just in case I’ve never said this before… bois suq!
This resulted in the following thread of comments…
Friend 1: After my experience over the last few weeks…I have to agree!!!
Friend 2: I agree!
Friend 3: Some do, not all
Me: all bois suq… men on the other hand…
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I was having a conversation with a friend today and she said,
“Whoever said this gets better with time is a big fat liar.”
And I would have to agree.
in every relationship, we each bring baggage. our past relationships, our past experiences, and our past in general, affect how we deal with our romantic reality (you like that term, don’t you?).
the biggest issue in most of our relationships, is not the things that she has said (we’ll deal with the bois later), but the things that she has not said–but that you have probably noticed.