After about “x” months, or even weeks of dating, many women experience an interesting phenomenon when it comes to their mate.  Now that they have removed the rose-colored glasses that keep them through the honeymoon phases of this budding relationship, it seems that there is a little problem.

He has nothing going for him…okay, let’s be fair, he has nothing that you value going for him.

No job.

No ambition.  Read more...

it used to be so hard to think about my life without you.  i even shed a tear at the thought…but then one day…you just didn’t matter anymore. don’t you remember how much you loved him/her, and how you always thought that it would be this way.  our kisses were phenomenal, when we touched it was magical, when we laughed–it hurt.  Read more...

Relationship dating for the long haul requires a level of maturity where one is ready to accept responsibility. Many couples that are very suited to each other often back out of a relationship because of simple issues that could have been addressed at a moment when they were both prepared to face it.  Read more...

It was one year ago today that we launched boissuq.com, and we would like to invite each of you to join us in celebrating this occasion!

In honor of our one year anniversary, we will be giving away $100 to one lucky boissuq.com reader!

This is how the contest will work:  Read more...

You are living your life…

Then it seems as if out  from nowhere…he appears.

Sometimes the old cliché is true, “out of sight, out of mind.”  Yet, with just one glimpse of the past, your thoughts are now consumed by him.  He appears in your dreams…while sleeping and awake.  You were over him, or so you thought; and now you have feelings of confusion surfacing within.  You begin to ask yourself, “What does this mean?  Do I still have feelings for him?  Why is he reaching out to me?  What does he want?”  Read more...

yes, i am going there.

while i appreciate the concept of a woman being “intimidating” because she is bold, confident, accomplished, educated, or even all four, i do not understand women who seem to lack the ability to be the partner that we are called to be.

oops! was that too church-y for some of you…oh well.  let’s face the facts, God made adam and then presented eve as his “helpmeet.” don’t get mad at me, its all right there in genesis…  Read more...

i could end this article with one sentence:

“when you don’t want me…it’s your loss.”

but i won’t…

what i will do is hopefully help us all move on to something better and make way for what is really meant  for us…i will use three sentences.  Read more...

you know the scenario, but if not, then try to follow along–at least for your friend’s sake.

so, you have met him/her and you just know…with every fiber of your being you just know that this person is going to be important to you. so you begin the tedious work of pursuing him/her in hopes of making this person your next significant other.

wait…tedious?

tedious.  Read more...

Too often it seems that we operation based on assumptions…

Instead of asking for clarification we draw our on conclusions and react accordingly. 

He has not made any effort to speak to me in three days, so apparently he is not interested… how do you know he is not interesting?  Did you ask him why he has been non-responsive?  Did you ever stop to consider that he may have a lot going on that has nothing to do with you… so instead of making assumptions based on his actions, why not reach out to him?  Read more...

Chemistry vs. Stability…

Which is most important, and is it possible to have both within a relationship?

@ HighHeelVic @boissuqchemistry or stability!? whaaatt!? Chemistry of course, stability is boring… ;p

@ Abrich87 @boissuq stability… and chemistry always is there. we are always attracted to something…whats gon’ hold us when we get used to the norm

via @sequoiahouston Chemistry if you looking for happiness. Stability if you looking for money, wealth, retirement.. Etc, etc .  Read more...