For the last few months, I have been baffled by something that will probably seem very trivial, but I’m going to tell you anyway.
We talk so much about relationships on this site, that I have been forced to ask the simple question: how do we know if we are in one? Now, it may not seem that big of a deal to you, but let us consider the possibilities:
After about “x” months, or even weeks of dating, many women experience an interesting phenomenon when it comes to their mate. Now that they have removed the rose-colored glasses that keep them through the honeymoon phases of this budding relationship, it seems that there is a little problem.
He has nothing going for him…okay, let’s be fair, he has nothing that you value going for him.
No job.
No ambition.
it used to be so hard to think about my life without you. i even shed a tear at the thought…but then one day…you just didn’t matter anymore. don’t you remember how much you loved him/her, and how you always thought that it would be this way. our kisses were phenomenal, when we touched it was magical, when we laughed–it hurt.
Relationship dating for the long haul requires a level of maturity where one is ready to accept responsibility. Many couples that are very suited to each other often back out of a relationship because of simple issues that could have been addressed at a moment when they were both prepared to face it.
So last week I took to facebook and posted the following status…
Just in case I’ve never said this before… bois suq!
This resulted in the following thread of comments…
Friend 1: After my experience over the last few weeks…I have to agree!!!
Friend 2: I agree!
Friend 3: Some do, not all
Me: all bois suq… men on the other hand…
Really?
I can’t tell.
See, I have the been burdened by this for a while, so I am going to go ahead and let us all work this one out.
Before you can call me bitter, or rejected…just hear me out.
Woman Seeking Man, but not any ol’ man will do. Unless you fit the following criteria please do not respond…
You must be…
Intelligent, Honest, Trustworthy, Passionate, Compassionate, Ambitious, Determined, Loving, Sharing , Humorous, Creative, Stylish, Respectful (of self and others), Faithful…Oh…and you must love Football!
say you love me…or your hate me.
say you like me…do you want to date me?
say it’s over–but it never began…
say its over–just tell me its the end?!
say we’re friends…or enemies
say we’re lovers…are you that into me?
say we’ll never…be anything
just say something…because i can’t let it be
MILLIE is the fabulous boissuq reader who proved her two cents is worth $100!
KI is our runner up and will be receiving a special boissuq.com prize pack!
Thank you to our winners and all others who have shown us support in the first year. We look forward to growing with you… so stay tuned, because bigger things are to come in year two!