Are My Expectations Too High For a Relationship?

By Guy Russell

We are all human beings, and as such have strengths and weaknesses. One of the benefits of being human is the ability to work on our own weaknesses and improving our own lives and others around us. There are numerous “self help gurus” whose basic principle is improving how you view yourself to improve your own life. Of course it is easy just settle on our expectations of yourself and others instead of making changes, but it is the complacency that will affect who we are as an individual and how we are viewed in our partners eyes.  Read more...

You are living your life…

Then it seems as if out  from nowhere…he appears.

Sometimes the old cliché is true, “out of sight, out of mind.”  Yet, with just one glimpse of the past, your thoughts are now consumed by him.  He appears in your dreams…while sleeping and awake.  You were over him, or so you thought; and now you have feelings of confusion surfacing within.  You begin to ask yourself, “What does this mean?  Do I still have feelings for him?  Why is he reaching out to me?  What does he want?”  Read more...

I started not to write this… I feel like a broken record, with this unrequited love thing and all…

Here we stand in a crowded room… we arrived separately, not knowing that the other would be here.  Our eyes meet from across the room… I quickly look away.  I feel uncomfortable in your presence, sensing my awkwardness you try to make me feel at ease. You catch my attention and ask me to come to you, “Closer… closer… no closer.”  Here we stand, face- to- face, lips barely missing each other.  My emotions overtake me as I look into your eyes.  I see you looking back at me as if you’re looking into me…into my soul.   I retreat, giving into the moment…  Read more...

Don’t miss Unfiltered tonight – MsGoodiGoodi and myself will be chatting with Kaine and Lil’Ern with regards to all the reasons bois suq! So tune into the Unfiltered Show tonight at 8pm EST!

If you missed our April 5th appearance, I forgive you and have posted the podcast below…just make sure you don’t miss tonight.

I was watching Want Chilli Wants and shaking my head at her and that ridiculous list.   Read more...

I hit delete…

“Oh no!” I exclaimed, clutching my head wondering what had I done.

“Mabye it can be recovered.” I think to myself.

I go to the recycle bin…no files found.

For a brief moment I begin to panic…

How could I be so careless?  How could I delete that file?  That was the most important file on the flash drive…

Or at least that is what I had allowed myself to believe.   Read more...

you’re probably wondering where all the posts and articles went.  well, they are still here, just placed in our brand, spankin’ new categories (so take a peek).  but, keep watching this space, we’ve got something amazing planned for “a thin line,” and we hope you’ll be pleased.

stay tuned…