Why is it so difficult for some to be completely open and honest in a relationship? I read a tweet this morning advising men to keep some things from us ladies, because we apparently don’t want to know or can’t handle the truth at times. I however disagree. If I ask you a question it is because I want to know the answer, and in some instances I need to know the answer. I am pretty much an open book, and I am willing to make myself vulnerable by revealing my true self to those close to me because of a word called, “trust.” Yet once I realize that you are not being completely “transparent” with me, I will begin to wonder why the need to hide behind a mask? Why are you not as willing to be open with me? Then I will begin to doubt your sincerity and reevaluate the need to have you be an integral part of my life.
This comment was left on our Facebook page regarding why and how men chose the women in their lives…
“When men are in a relationship and they have already, in a sense, conquered their goal of friendship/sex/and romance with you they look on to the next person. The new person is the challenge that sometimes the woman ends up winning.”
He went on to say…
Yep… as I get straight to the point!
I don’t want you to read this article and think… “Here we go again…!
Here’s a man who is about to tell us he wants a woman who can cook.
Here’s an article who says he wants a woman with a good personality and a nice smile.”