I am one to say that I do not date…

I meet a guy, we become friends, and then maybe we can see what develops from there…

Well, this approach has not worked too well for me these past couple of years.

I am not the type of chick to seek out a man…I just go about my day to day life…if I meet someone new, great, but I am not going to be the one to pursue anything beyond friendship.  Read more...

You know all the statistics.  There’s more than a 50% chance that you will divorce once married, and let us  not even analyze the probability that you will break up when the relationship becomes too hard.  We are programmed to get what we want when we want it, and when we don’t…we leave. 

Well, don’t we?  Read more...

Yeaaaah…not so much.

I have never been a fan of the game of chase.   As a child, I was the little girl not too keen on getting all dirty and sweaty, who would rather sit inside an enjoy a good book, drawing a picture, writing a story…allowing my imagination to run free.   Not much has changed…  Read more...

There is a difference between “moving on” and “letting go”…yet too many times, we claim to have let go of relationships past, when in reality we are moving on while dragging these experiences with us as we go…  Read more...

Over and Over in My mind
I hear these lines…
Silly of me, to think that I
Would ever have you for my guy…Yeah…silly of me…
To believe you, when you said, you liked me
I once said that I did not think I measured up to your standards
Your response…
How could you NOT know you are the highest measure?
Yeah, now I know you were feeding me a line
But see…to me…
That was real, it was my reality
Because for me, you set the bar
Funny how quickly things can change
The same man that gave me hugs and kisses, told me he missed me
Know disregards my presence, ignores my questions, treats me with disrespect
The same man who played the role…you know…
“I think I might get hurt because I will end up liking you  more…”
Yeah, well…guess who ended up hurt.
I stopped looking once I found you…
Yet you continuously looked past me
I said I would not cry, but it’s easier said than done…
Because although you’ve forgotten me, you’re still with me
You’re in my thoughts, and you haunt my dreams
But as much as I am hurting right now, I have to press on
Time does not stand still, life moves on…regardless of what’s going on.
I think to myself…
Weeping only endures for the night…
For now, I’m rejected
But it was to be expected
See I’m Loving, Giving
And some just can’t handle it…
They are scared to be loved
Don’t know what’s it’s like to be loved
And I have just accepted
That with these types…
I will always be rejected.  Read more...